Look what you made me do: Open messages to people who bring out your beast mode

We only have a few weeks before 2018 yet you might have the desire to skip and jump onto the next chapter of your life. Maybe this is because the memories about your awkward situations and numerous mistakes rush through your brain every time and you can’t forget the people who have been part of it.

We know how difficult it is to forget, especially when you are in the situation that you never imagined to be the outcome of your actions, like if only you can say:

“I’m sorry, the old (ME) Taylor can’t come to the phone right now… Why? Oh, ’cause she’s dead!”

But hey! Let’s chill! Think of a way on how you would deal with these things.

Taylor Swift even wrote a song out of that certain feeling:

We know that you would want to send a link of this song to the people you want to forget but you can’t. It can be super gratifying but you also know that it can cause a lot of intense moments. You know — like what they claim to be the purpose of this song and/or her album Reputation.

So instead, let’s try writing down what you want to say to the people causing your most angry moments. Well, it might not be a good idea to name names online but let’s imagine these people and let go….

Or be forever bitter. Which shouldn’t be the option!

**Releasing and writing down open messages can be a good way to lessen the angst and worries inside your chest!

1. To the boss who never saw your worth:

“I tried my best to please you, but you never appreciated my effort. I will never understand why you hate me when I never did anything wrong, but I accept now that I can’t change these kinds of things.

"Thank you for making me strong and for making me realize that I deserve better. You are the one person that I won’t allow myself to be in the near future.”

2. To the person you’ve always been jealous of:

“I know it’s not your fault, but I decided to unfollow all your social media accounts because I don’t want to feel insecure every time I see your posts. Still, I am open to the possibilities that I will overcome this feeling and be friends with someone like you.

"It’s not your fault. I am not blaming you. But my staying away is what’s good for both of us.”

3. To the one who had taken you for granted:

“Thank you because you made me realize my worth and also not to take anyone for granted.”

4. To the friend who suddenly left you in the middle:

“I forgive you. I also accept the fact that life goes on and we just grew apart.”

5. To the friend who only stays with you during good times:

“Life isn’t always fun. Hope you can find a new friend.”

6. To the person who never believes in you:

“I don’t have anything to prove to you, but you made me constantly do it anyway, for no apparent reason. 😣 So thank you because you always have the time to keep lighting the fire in me.”

7. To the most annoying person you know:

“You can get lost.” ✌️

8. To the person who keeps dragging you down:

“Thank you, I am writing my next chapter without your name on it.”

9. To the person who always stops you from doing something great:

“Let’s forget about each other’s existence.”

10. To your old self (We have to include it here, because we know how often we criticize ourselves!)

“I know you never liked the new me sometimes, but I hope you understand that I didn’t want to repeat the same mistakes over and over again. We both need to accept the fact that we have had enough.

I don’t want to delete or eliminate you but are really testing my patience! I still love you, but let’s gently move around as you know how fragile I am with words and the negative thoughts you throw every time.”

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These are not about trolling but it is designed to make you think. Are you ready to share it on your page and let them figure it out? Or are you ready to just forget and move on?

We hope you made the right decision. 😊

Do you have some messages to share? Leave them in the comments below!